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  THE LIFE AUDIT PROCESS                    TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE  
     
  The Life Audit Process 
A course presented by Hilda de la Rosa
(Courses run in Cape Town, Durban and Johannesburg)
 
 

Most of us, at one time or another, dream about "the perfect life". The life that we wish we could really have. We may have been married, or at least in a permanent relationship for some years, we may even enjoy our job. Perhaps we are at an age where money issues are becoming easier, we may even have managed to be fairly good parents. Yet, we still feel as if there is something missing. Something we can't quite put our finger on. We may not be desperately unhappy but still feel unfulfilled. Although this seems to happen more often at mid-life, this feeling of discontent can hit us at any stage.

If you are feeling any of the following, you may be in need of a Life Audit Process:
My partner does not really know who I am.
It does not feel as if I fit in at all.
I'm tired of all the pretending.
I hate my job/home/family/life.
I can't seem to find a decent lover/friend.
Nothing is making me happy.
I am not really unhappy, there just seems to be something missing.
What is the point?
I feel trapped within my relationship/ job/family.
I am tired of the struggle to make ends meet.
I always seem to put myself last.
I am unable to say no.
I am always the one making all the effort.
I have more on my plate than I can cope with.
My spouse behaves like a child - why can't he/she take responsibility?

All of the above feelings may be true for you at one time or another. However, if these feelings are constantly with you, you may need to audit your life. The Life Audit Process does just that.

We ask three questions:
1. What is currently in your life that you love and cannot live without?
2. What is currently in your life that you need to let go of?
3. What is currently in your life that is fine, but will be even better if it changes
slightly?

The Life Audit Process takes a deep and meaningful look at who you really are.

Most of us have moulded ourselves into an image of who we think the world; our careers; partners or society wants us to be. In fact, this image or mask is actually running our lives, making our decisions, getting married and raising our children.

Each time we have a painful life experience, we add another layer to this image. This image serves to protect our delicate hearts. By the time we become adults, this image or mask is so entrenched in our life that we are no longer able to accurately identify who we really are. Simple wonder then that others also do not understand us.

Get to know your authentic self and change your life for the better!

The Life Audit Process will teach you to let go of that which no longer has meaning or purpose in your life. It will teach you to allow only those things that make you feel better about who you are, to form part of your life. It may even show you how to live with others in peace and harmony while still getting what YOU want!

The Life Audit Process will give you the tools to re-establish yourself in your life. For as long as the "image" or "mask" of who you think you should be is in charge of your life, it will continue to feel out of control.

 
 
Please click here to view available course dates.

Cost:
R360.00 - Coffee & tea included
Bring your own lunch, pen & notepad, sense of humour
 & wear comfortable clothes.


General Enquiries: 084 955 1941
Email: info@hildadelarosa.com
  
 
 
 
     
"Take Control of Your Life" 
A life-altering workshop presented by Hilda de la Rosa
(Courses run in Johannesburg - Cape Town & Durban on request)
 


The power to change your life is in your hands.

If you are willing to examine what is currently happening in your life and you wish to change that which you are unhappy with, this series of workshops will provide you with the tools to do just that. Presented in manageable, bite-sized chunks, you can choose what you want to focus on first. 

        
1. Module One - Levels of Perception and Archetypes. (Morning)

Different people are at various levels of awareness and perception. These awareness levels exist because we have various religious backgrounds and grow up in vastly differing socio-economic environments. Our parents impart their beliefs and imprinting on us and we either seldom seriously examine or question these beliefs, or we find it difficult to believe that we even belong to this particular family. 

Each individual has a unique combination of personality archetypes. We examine these archetypes and, through this, begin to understand ourselves and others better. This enables us to interact with others in the spirit of co-operation rather than conflict. Understand why people react or behave the way they do, without compromising who you are. 

To some individuals, public-speaking comes naturally and it's easy for them. Others quiver and shake at the thought of doing it. Certain individuals have innate creative ability and have a natural sense of style and flair. Some are very technically minded and detail driven and simply cannot understand why others seem so flaky. 

Each of these archetypes uses distinct language and will have uniquely identifying environments in which they like to work or play. Find out how to identify these archetypes in others and how to determine the various perception levels within each archetype
        
2. Module Two - Facing your Dragons. (Afternoon)

Every individual that I have ever met has a dysfunctional family - it is only the extent of the dysfunctionality that varies. As a result of this dysfunction I have yet to meet a single individual who has not experienced some childhood trauma. All of us hide our own insecurities behind a mask or two. We learn this behaviour from our parents and, in turn, teach it to our children. 

There are seven "dragons" at the core of this module, and these "dragons" are the cause of most of our pain and negative emotions. Learn how to identify when the dragon is in control of your life and how to "slay" your particular dragon or dragons. When we begin to understand that our own negative behaviour stems from our childhood, we can learn how to extricate ourselves from the jaws of the dragon. Most importantly, learn how we teach these fear patters to our children - since we learned them from our parents! 
        
        


Please click here to view available course dates.


Cost:
R360.00 - Coffee & tea included
Bring your own lunch, pen & notepad, sense of humour
 & wear comfortable clothes.
 

General Enquiries: 084 955 1941
Email: info@hildadelarosa.com  
 
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