Don’t Ask Her

Don’t ask her. Ask him why her eyes are swollen shut.  Don’t ask her.  Ask him why it’s safer for her to sleep in the street in her car rather than in her own bed. Don’t ask her. Ask him why she’s at the emergency room – again....

It does not Interest Me

It does not interest me how many hours you meditate every day. I want to know how you speak to the waiter. It does not interest me how often you can stay positive. I want to know if you can be in the presences of great grief and not try to make it better or offer any...

The Dichotomy of Contradiction

/kɒntrəˈdɪkʃ(ə)n/ – noun” A combination of statements, ideas, or features which are opposed to one another.” I observe the endless love dichotomy. I think I may very well have created a social experiment that is bringing the relationship dichotomy...

Emotional Projection

MEANING: An intense emotional feeling that was forged in a past, deeply painful experience which we project into a current situation of any relationship. What does this then look like in an every day scenario? Let’s say someone feels insecure in their intimate...

The Dark Side of Light Workers

Years ago, someone introduced me at a lecture I was giving, saying something like, “Hilda’s teaching is like having open heart surgery – without anaesthetic.” I have always been direct and I have always stirred the conventional pot. I’ve never been sweet and...