by Hilda de la Rosa | Jan 29, 2022 | Articles
I read a meme today that said, “Your intentions create your reality.” It was intended to be uplifting and inspiring. Yet, when you analyze the meme it would suggest that somehow someone set an intention to, for example be, gang raped or murdered, or get breast cancer,...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Jan 22, 2022 | Articles
When it is high, we reflect what we believe about others. When it is low, we reflect what we believe about others. Let me explain: We are all confident, self-assured, and accomplished in various areas of our lives. We may be an accomplished artist, or actor,...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Jan 1, 2022 | Articles
We live in a demanding world. A world that seems to require us to be chasing something all the time. This may be a better job, or a better car, or a better painting, or a better house. It wants us to move faster, be better, be smarter, have more stuff, be in touch...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Sep 29, 2021 | Articles
It has taken me years to let go of the puritanical imprinting from my youth. It has taken me years to let go of the racism that I was raised with. It has taken me years to celebrate my intelligence rather than dumb myself down. It has taken me years to unbind...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Aug 30, 2021 | Articles
This is how the dictionary defines it: It is a sad fact that many of us are, in fact, extremely passive aggressive. Is this perhaps because we confuse confrontation with anger? Passive aggression is a tool many women use, because they may still believe that they have...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Aug 6, 2021 | Articles
Hailey Paige Magee, writes “In order to break the people pleasing pattern, we must learn how to sit with discomfort instead of reacting to it, including: The discomfort of others being unhappy with us.The discomfort of letting others handle their own problems...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Aug 3, 2021 | Uncategorized
When women talk about mansplaining it is not to piss the guys off – women can also mansplain – it is just a lot more prevalent with men. We bring it up because it is so tedious and hope that our mansplaining friend will learn something and perhaps become...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Jun 25, 2021 | Articles, Uncategorized
Do you have a friend or family member that makes you feel like you are constantly walking on eggshells? Do you mind what you say and how you speak to this individual? Do you often feel depleted after you’ve spent time with this person? We often feel this...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Jun 19, 2021 | Articles
If you disapprove of having your religion questioned, don’t read any further. Please also be aware that I am not needing you to change your view of your religion. I’m simply expressing why religion doesn’t work for me. The very first thing that...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Jun 12, 2021 | Articles
The dictionary says that pride is a feeling of deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from one’s own achievements. Humility on the other hand, is defined as the quality of having a modest or low view of one’s importance. A friend asked a question on...
