by Hilda de la Rosa | Aug 3, 2021 | Uncategorized
When women talk about mansplaining it is not to piss the guys off – women can also mansplain – it is just a lot more prevalent with men. We bring it up because it is so tedious and hope that our mansplaining friend will learn something and perhaps become...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Jun 25, 2021 | Articles, Uncategorized
Do you have a friend or family member that makes you feel like you are constantly walking on eggshells? Do you mind what you say and how you speak to this individual? Do you often feel depleted after you’ve spent time with this person? We often feel this...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Apr 13, 2021 | Uncategorized
I know it’s not all men, but I have been accosted in a lifts by more than one man on more than one occasion – so forgive me for waiting for another lift if you are alone in it. I know it’s not all men, but I have been manhandled in the street because...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Apr 9, 2021 | Uncategorized
I have just had an experience of the love and light of the new age. Someone on Facebook writes, “You are the source and cause, of your experience.” I replied to this by saying, “I used to believe this too. I have since learned that it can be a very painful and...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Mar 25, 2021 | Uncategorized
We are all guilty of reading a post on social media or interacting with an individual and projecting our wounding onto that interaction and interpreting it through our background, own wounding and past painful experiences. We rarely remember that the person posting or...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Mar 14, 2021 | Uncategorized
My child is my best friend. The damage we do to our children when we ask of them to make our emotional wellbeing their responsibility. Now, we do not do this consciously. We do it because, well, they are there, and they already love us, and they recognise that perhaps...