by Hilda de la Rosa | May 28, 2021 | Articles
I believe that we generally waste a great deal of our emotional energy when we worry about the opinions of others. It is a sad fact, but we are raised with the idea that what others think of us is important. We also believe that our standing in society is determined...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Apr 13, 2021 | Articles
I always find it fascinating when someone says, ‘Raise your vibration.” I often wonder if they understand that every part of your being already vibrates at a different frequency. You see, your fingernail, eyeball, liver and skeleton cannot possibly vibrate at...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Apr 13, 2021 | Articles
I saw a meme today that reads, “You can’t make someone love you by giving them more of what they already don’t appreciate.” I always find these kinds of memes really interesting. Many of them are meant to inspire, yet come from a space of...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Apr 13, 2021 | Uncategorized
I know it’s not all men, but I have been accosted in a lifts by more than one man on more than one occasion – so forgive me for waiting for another lift if you are alone in it. I know it’s not all men, but I have been manhandled in the street because...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Apr 9, 2021 | Uncategorized
I have just had an experience of the love and light of the new age. Someone on Facebook writes, “You are the source and cause, of your experience.” I replied to this by saying, “I used to believe this too. I have since learned that it can be a very painful and...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Mar 25, 2021 | Uncategorized
We are all guilty of reading a post on social media or interacting with an individual and projecting our wounding onto that interaction and interpreting it through our background, own wounding and past painful experiences. We rarely remember that the person posting or...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Mar 14, 2021 | Uncategorized
My child is my best friend. The damage we do to our children when we ask of them to make our emotional wellbeing their responsibility. Now, we do not do this consciously. We do it because, well, they are there, and they already love us, and they recognise that perhaps...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Jan 4, 2021 | Articles
Where do you spend most of your time on this emotional scale? Last year was a tough year and many of us took dreadful knocks. On this scale – the top six are truly the ONLY ones that get us off our buts and out of our own way and put us on the path to...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Dec 30, 2020 | Articles
Be a lady they said. Your skirt is too short. Your shirt is too low. Your pants are too tight. Don’t show so much skin. Don’t show your thighs. Don’t show your breasts. Don’t show your midriff. Don’t show your cleavage. Don’t show your underwear. Don’t show your...
by Hilda de la Rosa | Dec 26, 2020 | Articles
The more things change the more they stay the same. We know that fear of walking under a ladder is a superstition but believe that if we place a frog at the entrance of our home it will bring money or abundance. We don’t believe in hell but karma is a bitch. We...
